Supporting Jeffrey John’s ministry

I write in support of Jeffrey John’s ministry and for the affirmation of lesbian and gay Christians within the Church. I was sad to read of the ‘large amounts of hate mail’ (page 2, July Door) received and can only presume it was from our fellow Christians. Sad.

I am 54, I like many ‘normal’ human beings am crying out to be loved and to love. I have never been in a relationship and throughout my life have often felt very isolated, lonely and ashamed of my feelings which will not go away. It is hard to share with anyone my problem for fear of rejection (especially by those ‘family members’ of the church where I worship).

I did not choose my sexuality and it remains with me no matter how much I pray or wish it away. My only identity is as a son of God: loved and created by Him. I hope and believe. I have received the warmth of acceptance and affection, friendship from priests who I have met who are gay (and a few who are ‘normal’); they have helped my low selfesteem, made me feel included in God’s family, rather than feeling isolated. I and other friends (heterosexual) have found them to be faithful, honest and loving parish priests, affirming spiritual growth where they serve, true to their vocation.

Finally I ask myself this question: are our fellow Christians afraid of showing love towards us for fear of being labelled gay? My reply is: the Lord loves us and commands us to love one another.

Stephen
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